How do you know how many kids are enough? When Cat was born she was such a high maintenance babe that Saxman and I were sure we didn't want anymore kids. But then she grew out of that phase and we realized maybe we could handle a second. When our second daughter was born she was a fairly "easy" baby (as easy as babies can really be). We decided at that point that we were happy with two. But every so often I start to wonder, what would it be like to have one more? Could we handle it? My husband definitely does not want more kids. I am pretty sure I don't but sometimes when I see a pregnant mama or a mama with a newborn I get a little case of baby fever. Is this just me grieving the fact that my babies aren't really babies anymore? Do I really want another child or do I just feel a little sad that that stage of our lives is completely over? How do you know when you are done birthing babes?